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The Dark Triad Trade-off No One Talks About: why performative psychopathy isn’t worth it in the long run

Posted by Patient Zero January 21, 2026

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Autism: Optimised for a World That Doesn’t Exist

Posted by Patient Zero January 15, 2026

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Vibe and Aura Explained in Black-and-White

What is “Vibe" and "Aura”? Every NT knows the answer to this but can’t explain it to save their life so I will try. Simple version: Vibe has 2 meanings: 1. An externalised, comparative emotion or gut feeling you project onto something/someone. 2. The internal emotion or gut feeling you experience. The term is attached to its source, like an adjective. If someone is dependable and this makes you relaxed, they have a solid vibe and you have a chill vibe, not the other way around. Aura = How cool a person is. Negative Aura = cringe Aura Farming = Showing off Counterfeit Aura = Masking It’s giving XYZ = XYZ is the vibe I’m getting. Vibing = chill and relaxed. Full Version: Vibes are the emotional effect you have on other people through your demeanour, energy, appearance, speaking style and the emotional energy you project by leaking your feelings through your body movements and voice. Keanu Reeves, as himself, can be said to have a ‘Zen’ vibe. Grah...

The Dark Triad Trade-off No One Talks About: why performative psychopathy isn’t worth it in the long run

I’m naturally very high in Dark Triad traits. I’m self-centred, always filtering a plan through “how does it affect me though”. I’m a career salesperson and lifelong social chameleon, and I have selective empathy to protect myself because when it’s activated, it’s ACTIVATED. So I leave my empathy off most of the time. What grinds my gears is seeing these traits I work against myself to overcome be paraded as the silver bullet that will save young men from themselves. I work against this side of me and look for the right amount of empathy to connect without overloading my circuits and bleeding my heart all over the place. Because that’s what makes life human, real and fun. Throwing that away on purpose is retarded. I also contend with Persistant Demand Avoidance to make this happen. But the powerful combo of Dark Triad, PDA, a Sales Career, years in the Redpill space from a young age, and a bunch of other factors kept me in this dark hole cosplaying as a psycho for years, th...

How To Ask for Autism Accommodations at Work

Autistic people bring problem-solving, obsessive focus, deep expertise, creativity, and the ability to see patterns others miss. The problem is that most work environments fail us. Survival in these places depends less on how good we are at the job, and more on whether the system is willing to bend even a little.

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